Nilea
Nilea is the app I built to put Balancing Acts in couples’ hands. Both partners answer the same questions independently. The results show where the work sits, and where the two of you see it differently.
The assessment is free. It takes about ten minutes.
Most tools tell you who did what. Nilea shows you something harder to see: where your two accounts of the same household disagree.
One partner is certain the work is shared. The other is certain it is not. Both are describing the household honestly. Answering separately turns that into something you can look at together instead of argue about.
One of you starts
Sign up and take the assessment. Twenty-three to twenty-nine questions depending on your household, about ten minutes.
Invite your partner
They answer the same questions independently, without seeing your answers.
See the results together
Where the load falls, weighted for each partner’s hours and capacity, and where your two pictures diverge.
Come back to it
Retake the assessment anytime to see what has actually shifted.
The full assessment is free for both partners and stays free. A paid tier with structured skill-building is coming.